DevOps Story Managing Up Down Sideways and Outside

Welcome to this DevOps soft-skills guide. I’m Michael Forrester, and today we’ll explore how to manage relationships in all directions—upward, downward, sideways, and outside. Mastering these interactions is just as critical as your technical expertise in driving successful outcomes and fostering a culture of collaboration.

Why Influence Matters in DevOps

You’ve crafted a stellar proposal—clear documentation, compelling KPIs, and a solid rollout plan—but your boss remains disengaged, peers resist, and your team loses momentum. Without intentional stakeholder management at every level, even the best ideas can stall or fail.

Note

Influence in DevOps isn’t just about persuasion—it’s about understanding needs, building trust, and delivering value to every stakeholder group.

Four Directions of Stakeholder Management

Direction	Stakeholder Group	Key Focus	Example Actions
Upward	Leaders & Sponsors	Align on goals and risks	Present transparent status updates
Downward	Direct Reports	Coach, empower, and develop	Schedule regular 1:1s and growth conversations
Sideways	Peers & Cross-Teams	Collaborate and share ownership	Co-author design docs; rotate on-call duties
Outside	External Clients	Discover priorities and deliver	Host discovery workshops and feedback sessions

A Cautionary Tale: The Overbearing Architect

Consider an architect convinced containerization was the answer to every problem. He managed upward brilliantly—his boss was impressed—but neglected peers, subordinates, and clients:

He issued directives instead of seeking input.
He bypassed peer feedback on architecture changes.
He never explored external clients’ pain points.

Warning

Ignoring peer collaboration and user feedback can erode psychological safety, stall projects, and damage your reputation.

The outcome? Stalled delivery, widespread resistance, and a breakdown of trust.

Adopting a Client-Centric Mindset

Treat every stakeholder as your client. Each group has unique needs:

Upward (Leaders as Clients):
- Align deliverables with organizational OKRs
- Communicate progress, dependencies, and risks
Sideways (Peers as Clients):
- Share ownership of outcomes
- Offer and request constructive feedback
Downward (Reports as Clients):
- Coach for skill growth and autonomy
- Provide clear expectations and support
Outside (External Clients):
- Uncover true business priorities
- Deliver impactful, user-friendly solutions

Consistently meeting these needs builds trust, enhances reputation, and drives momentum.

Six Core Principles for Stakeholder Management

Inquire Deeply
- Use open-ended questions to reveal real challenges.
- Listen actively and reflect back to confirm understanding.
Create Feedback Loops
- Solicit input at each stage and act on it.
- Close the loop by showing how feedback influenced decisions.
Align Your Approach
- Customize proposals to stakeholder goals and language.
- Highlight ROI and risk mitigation.
Define Commitments Clearly
- Specify deliverables, timelines, and success criteria.
- Track progress transparently; adjust when necessary.
Prioritize Needs vs. Wants
- Distinguish between must-haves and nice-to-haves.
- Communicate trade-offs and set realistic expectations.
Build Trust Through Consistency
- Match words with actions; honor every commitment.
- Deliver incremental value and celebrate wins.

Bringing It All Together

By treating leaders, peers, team members, and external clients as your “clients,” you will:

Drive alignment and secure buy-in
Foster a culture of teamwork and innovation
Deliver outcomes that truly matter

Whether you’re influencing executives, collaborating across teams, empowering your direct reports, or delighting customers, a client-centric approach is your roadmap to DevOps success.

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